Archive for April, 2008

It’s a neighborly day in the beauty – would you be mine?

Yesterday was seriously the nicest day of the year. The weather was clear and fair, so everyone who lives in my neighborhood really made the most of it.

Brandine and I enjoyed our afternoon walk. The woods are best this time of year because the canopy hasn’t grown in yet and the sun reaches the forest floor. Meadows of wildflowers look like yellow and white carpets. Also, it is not humid and there are no mosquitoes yet. Brandine romped with two other retrievers and splashed around in the creek. The other dogs’ owners were both women about my age, so we socialized when the dogs did.

Later, I walked to the community center for Spanish class. On the way there, I passed a woman who shook a cherry branch, showering cherry blossom petals over her little boy, who spun around and tried to catch them. It was such a sweet moment that I think even Jimbo’s cynical cone-heart would have warmed up.

In order to get to the community center, I have to walk between a baseball field, where a team was warming up for the season, and a playground, where little kids pretended they were on the baseball team. Again, it was ridiculously cute and the kind of “All-American” scene that you want to show to people from other countries.

After class, during which I told my instructor that “mi grammatico esta como mierda,” (or is it “es”? See what I mean, Buns?) I walked home during that “golden hour” that moviemakers like, when everyone looks younger and prettier. When I walked by the elementary school, the field was full of grownups and children. They were playing soccer and softball, laying out to catch the last bit of sunshine, or training their dogs. There was a couple in their twenties sharing an ice cream cone. Birds chirped. A sentient trolley whistled. King Friday XIII issued a decree. And this lady got some football players to dance in the “Neighborhood of Make-Believe”:

If I wasn’t on such a seratonin high, I might have been just a little nauseated.

Bloody brilliant!

Bunny, many many congratulations to you (for your new job and new eco-friendly car) and Jimbo (for publishing, not perishing) and Yolanda (for being supercute and adorable in childcare).

Monty and I are feeling the same way as you – like there’s change in the air. Or as Monty put it, we’re both commencing at the same time. Me, from the most expensive school in the country, which is a dubious distinction to be sure, and Monty, from his former job of 9 1/2 years. It’s kind of exhilarating, ain’t it? Makes me think of all those great 80s movie graduation scenes. Like in Back to School or Say Anything. But hopefully not Less than Zero.

I for one am pretty thrilled. After my defense, Monty threw a party and a lot of people from different areas of our lives showed up to wish me well. I felt all this great good will and booze, which is a lovely combination. And to top it all off, Kitty took the train from Philly! So awesome. There was one moment where we were in the office and one of my friends saw the picture of you, me, Monty, and D. with the snowboard and the banana in Whistler Village. I said to Kitty, “You took that picture!” and we both started explaining to the other people in the room the sheer folly of taking seriously uncoordinated girls from Florida to a world-class ski and snowboard resort in Vancouver.

I suppose the euphoria’s wearing off a little bit – I’m kind of getting into the “what the hell now” phase. A while back, I met with my old boss to talk about careers and her advice was to have children in order to even out the political playing field. Yes, she wanted me to have babies so that there would be more Democrats around.  (I decided not to tell her that I’m a registered independent.  It would have hurt her feelings.) And that is what happens when you live in DC.

Bloody well done!

The other night I told Jimbo that I felt like this was a our lives are changing kind of time. I got a job, Yolanda will be starting a new child care arrangement, we bought a new car, Jimbo got published. All in the same month! Aren’t these things supposed to happen in cycles, like menstruation? If so, then we are so on the rag, but in a good way, without all the blood. And speaking of new good stuff without all the blood, congrats to you, Penelope! Or would you prefer I call you Doctor P? I’m so happy that you finished that mammoth assignment! I don’t even know what it was about even though you’ve told half a dozen times, at least. This proves you are way smarter than me and I’m okay with that.Now you and Monty can move onto other things in your life… take up dressage or something.